HAS LOVE FOUND YOU? KEEP DOING WHAT YOU WERE DOING

 

Note to self:

Dear Precious,

Now that love has found you, remember this. 

You thought the things I said we should do until love finds us would come to an end?

Nope. Someone said once “Whatever you did to get your man, you must keep doing to keep him”

And friends, that is it!

A man will be attracted to you as you do all the things we talked about in the last series. He is not expecting you to fall short of that. He rather expects you to switch up. But if you won’t switch up, at least, just keep giving him what he saw when he met you. Do not, I repeat, do not under-deliver.

You are a product. And you ought to market yourself. Even when you are married. Please, spare me all the arguments. Even you, expect consistency and value for your money from service providers whom you do not live with. But you don’t seem to understand that you should continually market yourself to your beloved?

Well, that’s up to you. Keep being boring and peasant-minded. You will rep the consequences of that.

Keep doing what you were doing before he proposed. And find new and exciting ways of doing the same thing. Follow the Holy Spirit as always. God is not boring. He is a creative at His core. Look around the universe and see all that He created. My dear lady, run to your father and ask for spice for your relationship. If you think I’m psycho or colloquial for saying this, that’s your problem.

The older women I know who are seemingly happy in their marriages have been using this method. Be wise.